Animals

Dreaming about donkey

Donkeys are reported for refusal. The animal that will not move is the characteristic image, and it puts these reports with the effort-without-effect group rather than with the animal ones.

Also searched as: a donkey, an ass, a mule, a stubborn animal

Refusal to move is the dominant report, and dreamers describe pulling, pushing and getting nowhere.

That is the same structure as the legs that will not run and the machine that will not start, and grouping it there is more useful than treating it as an animal dream.

Carrying is the second theme, as with the camel, and load-bearing dreams are calm.

A donkey being mistreated appears in a small group and produces disproportionate distress, in the same way the other animals-in-trouble reports do.

Common associations

  • Refusal, which is what the reports are actually about.
  • Effort against something that will not move.
  • Burden, in the carrying version.
  • Mistreatment, in the distressing minority.

Positive readings

The load-bearing reports are calm and unremarkable.

The analytic value is in the grouping: recognising this as an effort dream rather than an animal dream redirects attention usefully.

Difficult readings

The refusal is frustrating rather than distressing.

The mistreatment reports are worth logging with the other empathic-distress ones.

Psychological perspectives

Motor commands are not executed in REM, so effort produces no result. A donkey is a culturally available object to attach that failure to, in the same way a lock or a gun is.

That is the entry's main point and it is why it links outward rather than inward.

The stubbornness association is doing the selection: a dream needing something that will not move reaches for the animal already labelled that way.

The donkey appears at several of the most significant moments in the gospels and in the Hebrew Bible, including one that speaks, and it is not a figure of ridicule in those texts.

The modern association with stupidity and stubbornness is largely English idiom and fable, and it is a considerable distance from the older material.

Donkeys remain essential working animals in many places, where none of this applies.

What the sleep science says

Well established: motor commands are not executed during REM, producing effort without result.

Reasonably supported: dreams select culturally available objects to attach a failure to.

Not established: any meaning for a donkey.

Your own context

  • Did it move?
  • What were you trying to make it do?
  • Was it carrying anything?
  • Was it being treated badly?

If this recurs

Log with the effort-without-effect reports. The animal is the costume.

Emotions often reported

  • frustration
  • effort
  • fatigue
  • tenderness
  • anger
  • helplessness

Questions for reflection

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  • Did it move at all?
  • What was I trying to get it to do?
  • Was it carrying something?

Dream interpretation is subjective. Nothing here is a diagnosis, a prediction, or medical advice.

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