Lucid dreaming
Staying in a lucid dream
The commonest failure is not becoming lucid. It is the ten seconds afterwards. Excitement wakes you.
5 min readintermediate
Most first lucid dreams end almost immediately, and the pattern is always the same: you realise, you get excited, you wake up.
The first ten seconds
Stay calm. That is the whole technique and it is harder than it sounds. Excitement raises arousal, and arousal ends the dream.
Then stabilise:
- Rub your hands together. Generating tactile sensation is the most widely recommended stabiliser and the one most practitioners find works.
- Touch things. Walls, ground, objects. Engage senses that are already running.
- Look at detail, or at the ground. Broad vague scenes destabilise; detail anchors.
- Narrate out loud. "I am dreaming. I am in a street. The wall is cold."
- Spin. Widely recommended, though reports on it are mixed.
When the dream starts to fade
Greying out, losing colour, the scene thinning. Do not panic. Go back to sensation. Rub your hands, touch a surface, look at something close and detailed.
If you wake
Stay still with your eyes closed. It is often possible to re-enter, and false awakenings are common at this point, so do a reality check before concluding you are awake.
Sources and reviewed references
1 reference. What these labels mean
- 1.Lucid Dreaming Verified by Volitional Communication During REM SleepPeer-reviewed research
Stephen LaBerge, Lynne Nagel, William Dement and Vincent Zarcone (1980) · Perceptual and Motor Skills
Cited for: The eye-signalling experiments that established lucid dreaming as a verifiable state rather than a self-report.